Lesson 5

LESSON 5: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU’RE A SUGAR BABE?

You shouldn't become a sugar babe without thinking about how it might change you. Here is what might happen to you:

- If you’re a sugar babe once, you could be a sugar babe again. Because you’ll see how easy it is to get things you want this way. As a sugar babe you will never take a part-time job for $10 an hour, because you are used to money coming so much more easily than that.
- You might become more spoiled and self-centered. At first you will only act this way to get what you want from your sugar daddy, and because he enjoys it, but eventually you will find yourself acting this way more often even when you are not with him.
- You could look at men differently. Once you really learn how powerful a woman can be when she knows how to make a man give her what she wants, you will respect men less. It might be harder for you to look at men as anything other than toys for you to play with.

You have to decide if you want these changes to happen to you. One thing you *should not* do is be monogamous with your sugar daddy. Maintaining a casual relationship with a boy close to your age will actually help you enjoy your time with your SD more deeply, because it will sharpen the contrast between what the boy and daddy are giving you. They are VERY different -- you will find it's not at all like trying to maintain relationships with two boys of about equal stature. If you remain sexually active with other boys you will need to discuss the matter of protection with your daddy and decide together how to handle that.

Okay, this is my very last question for you. The final exam. And I want you to think about it carefully! Finish this statement for me.

“I want to become a sugar babe because....”

And you can’t say “because I want this and that.” I’m looking for a different answer... why do you want to be a *sugar babe* to get those things, rather than taking a part time job or getting a loan or asking your grandma for money? Be introspective. This is the most important question I will ask you.